Well well, uhmm. I am speaking here, in this topic in general so whoever read or reading this don't terasa kayy (:
Why do we have to treat one person in a group differently, in every group there must be the one who is most hated, most bullied, most envied and moree. Cant we all just treat each other equally? after all we are humans. And we all have our differences in us and nothing can change who we are so either friends or family must accept that, if they cant, then try to deal with it if not, tell them straight up just to release your feelings . If you are jealous, why? what's there to be jealous about? maybe you have something the other person doesn't. And try to think what the other person are feeling. You cant just let the other person take care of yours when you aren't taking care of theirs, they deserve to receive the same equal treatment. Its not fair if its not balanced. You may never know the person you always disturb and all would one day just SNAP! because they cant stand it anymore. This is for the patient people case. They just listen and listen and just practically just layan your crap and one day when they really cant stand it anymore they would just release all their anger and all and you would be the one apologising and who knows maybe if you've done something to that person ( and haven't yet ask for forgiveness or the person belum forgive you because you don't earn it) just moved, migrate elsewhere or even passed away and you'd be the one who just sinned because you cant ask for forgiveness if you lost the contact or don't know where they are or they just simply not in this world anymore.
So please beware of the consequences you could receive for this simple case.
I'm a victim (bullied, ejek and sorts) and I'm fine with it. for now.
